I feel my fiancee lied about her sexual desires and her past

We had frank discussions but she misled me. Now any hint of unhappiness on my part is taken as criticism

Before my fiancee and I got together, we had frank discussions about our sexual desires. A few years later I feel that I was misled or lied to. I feel a great sense of loss and sadness. It turns out that she has had a far freer past than I, and I was misled about this too. She is very selfish and demands constant attention, but it is not reciprocated. Any hint of unhappiness on my part is taken as a criticism.

There are many reasons why you might have chosen to spend several years with a woman who seems to make you unhappy, and it is worth seeking the answer: perhaps you have a deep sense of unworthiness, a belief that you do not deserve better, or simply do not know how to get your needs met.

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Alex Vidal