It’s challenging to build an online profile; yes we recognize that fact. And, you’re probably going to be the first to say: “tell me about it!” as you read the first few sentences of this post.
We are here to alleviate the pressure and give you some advice. You’ll find lots of men out there, just like you, who are desperate to know what they did wrong with their online profiles. They are wondering why is it that the accounts don’t get a lot of hits. We’ll answer that as well as give you a few tips on ways to boost your online dating profile and, at the same time, attract the kind of women that you want.
“I’m not in it for a long-term relationship”
Data shows that most Asian ladies sign up with online dating portals for two reasons: long-term relationships and marriage. Lots of women from these countries are very conservative and don’t have the mindset that lots of Western women do. Let’s put it this way, Asian ladies don’t spend time messing around in short-term relationships. They have no time for it.
“I’m not employed at this time.”
If this is you then delete these words. Seriously, delete them.You want to come across as a capable man not someone that needs to be taken care of. We don’t mean to imply that they are in any way materialistic. This way of thinking is a result of gender roles that they grew up with that taught them that men are providers.
“I’m very successful. I drive a luxury car. I own my own business enterprise. I sound like I’m loaded.”
These lines are very common. They would be wonderful if they were true but if they were not, you’re out of the game if your Asian lady friend finds out (and she eventually will). Never ever lie on your online dating profile because trust is a very important thing in long distance relationships. Once you break the trust of your online partner with small, little, white lies, you’ll have to climb a mountain to gain her trust back again.
“I have children.”
Let’s clear the air a bit. Having kids is a true blessing but, like we said earlier, Asian women (especially those who have been in their country all their life) are very conservative and the thought of having a blended family (father, stepmom, and children) may be something that’s new to them. There’s a high chance that you could get rejected but in other cases, there are Asian women, who do not have a problem with this.
Need Further Advice?
These are only a couple of examples of what may be serious turn-offs for Asian ladies. Check back with us soon for an update on tips for Asian women and Asian dating.