When dating online, it is somehow much easier to make life changing decisions – something we would give more consideration offline. In this article, we will take a look at what should one consider before marrying a Chinese woman.
Most of the communication online takes place via email, live chat and sometimes – over video chat. You only get to meet in person only a few times and all of that makes it much easier to get swept away by emotions. The feeling you get can make you drop whatever concerns you may have about marrying someone from a different culture. However, you should still take some things into consideration before taking the big step.
1. Spending More Time Together
Think about it for a moment – you haven’t spent enough time together in a physical space. All the hours of talking online will most likely only amount to a couple of days. Meet up, spend quality time together and see if the spark you feel is real. The advantages of doing this are quite obvious – you can tell if your communication works if the spark is there and if your feelings are still true.
2. Are You On the Same Page?
You may be very sure of how you feel but what about her? It is important to figure that out before suggesting taking the big step of getting engaged. You shouldn’t focus on how good the online relationship has been but on how you two get along in the offline world. How well can you get past the ups and downs that life has in store for you?
3. Cultural and Religious Differences
If there is one thing that will be a difficult thing to get past in online relationships it is cultural and religious differences. If you aren’t a strong couple, then this is something that may end up breaking you up. How are your coping skills? How well would she blend into another culture? It is all about spending more time together and figuring these things out.