If you are reading this article, then you are either already dating a Chinese woman online or are interested in doing so. This article was written to provide you advice for how to impress your lady who is on the other side of the globe. Before you get any deeper into it is important for you to understand something about the Chinese culture – actions speak a lot louder than words. That doesn’t mean that words no longer play any role – no. It is just that actions carry the majority of the weight.
1. Send her flowers of gifts.
Since you are talking online or over the phone all the time, there isn’t much you can do in the physical realm. Because you live so far away, the best idea is to send something physical over. Anything that can remind them of you if the see it. It can be a bouquet of flowers to her workplace(something common in the Chinese culture), sending a box of chocolates or perhaps a lovely necklace. The impression will last if you choose this route.
2. Be the one that starts conversations.
When online dating you have three main ways to communicate – email, chat and video. At first, you will be talking at random times like when you both happen to be online at the same time. Then you will begin setting up a schedule – by then you will be more interested in spending time together. When this starts happening, then take the lead in setting up the schedule. Be the first to say hello. Show her that you are dedicated to your conversations, that she is important to you.
If you have reached a point where you would like to visit your special someone, then you need to ask yourself a couple of questions. Are you two on the same page? Would she want you to visit? Can you even afford it? Is it the right time? Can you get off work? All these questions need to have a positive answer. Especially the one about being on the same page. If you are looking at your relationship as something that has a great future and she is just thinking this is short term then making a huge investment will be a mistake.
There are more things you need to know about the Chinese dating culture if you are interested in dating a Chinese woman. These tips will help you get started, but you do need to do more research on your own.